How Do You Sit in Your Wedding Gown Once It Is Bustled?

You’ve found the dress, and it is the one that makes you feel radiant, regal, and completely yourself. But, as you imagine your wedding day, there’s one question few brides think about until the moment arrives. And it is, “How do you actually sit in your wedding gown once the bustle is buttoned?”

From ball gowns to mermaid silhouettes, each wedding dress brings its own unique challenges. Sitting comfortably, and gracefully, depends on your gown’s structure, the fullness of your skirt, and the length of your train.

1. Posture Is Everything

No matter what type of gown you wear, posture matters. Sit tall with your shoulders back and your chin lifted slightly. Good posture not only prevents discomfort (your ribs will thank you later!), but also ensures your wedding photos capture your elegance from every angle. Remember, slouching can make even the most stunning gown lose its magic.

2. Have a Helping Hand

Before you sit, ask your maid of honor, mother, or bridal attendant to assist you. They can lift your train and gently pull the fabric to one side to avoid wrinkles and tangles. This simple act of care helps preserve the beauty of your gown and keeps you poised throughout the reception.

3. Sitting and Rising Gracefully

When you sit, smooth your skirt beneath you, pulling the fabric forward slightly. If your train is bustled, ease it behind or beside you. When it’s time to stand, gather your skirt to the opposite side of your groom. This will prevent you from tripping and it keeps your movements fluid and elegant.

4. Embrace Every Moment

Your wedding gown isn’t just a garment, it’s part of your wedding day story. So, I encourage you to sit, stand, dance, and savor every moment knowing that grace is not about perfection, but about presence.

Love and Soul Always, Kawania

(Photo: Michelle Lindsay Photography)