Why Are Dress Codes So Difficult to Decipher?

With so many different dress codes out there, it can be difficult to know what to wear. And, trust me, it can be difficult, even when the dress code is stated on the invitation. For your reference, I listed below some dress code terms, along with our recommendations of what they actually mean.

White Tie Dress Code for Weddings

When the dress code calls for “White Tie” you should know that this is the time when you can purchase and wear that ball gown you have been coveting in your favorite dress salon, your opera gloves, and your “special occasion” jewelry. “White Tie” attire is typically reserved for formal state dinners, galas, and high-end formal weddings.

What Does the “White Tie” Dress Code Mean for Ladies?

Formal Floor Length Evening Gown (preferably worn with opera gloves; high-end jewelry and fur wraps)

What Does the “White Tie” Dress Code Mean for Gentlemen?

A tuxedo is the attire worn at a White Tie affair. A white tie is typically worn with the tuxedo. Additional options include a white vest and/or a morning coat.

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Black Tie Dress Code for Weddings

For most formal events, Black Tie attire is the most appropriate choice.

What Does the “Black Tie” Dress Code Mean for Ladies?

Formal (preferably floor length) Evening Gown; Fancy Cocktail Dress

What Does the “Black Tie” Dress Code Mean for Gentlemen?

A tuxedo with a black tie is the appropriate attire for formal events. During the summer months, it’s appropriate to wear a white dinner jacket with black tuxedo pants.

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Formal or Black Tie Optional for Weddings

It is appropriate to wear Black Tie attire, but it is not necessary. Men can wear dark suits for this dress code.

What Does the “Black Tie Optional” Dress Code Mean for Ladies?

Evening Gown; Knee-Length or Tea-Length Cocktail Dress; “Little Black Dress;” Fancy Separates

What Does the “Black Tie Optional” Dress Code Mean for Gentlemen?

Dark Business Suit with a Tie or a Tuxedo

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Semi-Formal or Cocktail Attire for Weddings

The options for this dress code vary, so it is probably the most confusing attire option. Remember this tip: Business attire is always acceptable for Semi Formal/Cocktail attire, but this is an opportunity for ladies to add festive jewelry, a fun scarf, and those great high heels to their outfits.

What Does the “Semi-Formal or Cocktail Attire” Dress Code Mean for Ladies?

Knee-Length Cocktail Dress; “Little Black Dress;” a Very Nice Blouse and Skirt or a Very Nice Blouse and Slacks

What Does the “Semi-Formal or Cocktail Attire” Dress Code Mean for Gentlemen?

This attire is typically a Dark Business Suit with a Tie. During the spring and summer months, a light colored suit and tie are acceptable.

Final Advice

Your wedding attire dress code sets the tone for your wedding. Select a dress code that fits the vibe you want to create for your wedding. Then, make sure you clearly explain it to your wedding guests. When you are ready to embark upon the most epic wedding planning experience, please contact your professional wedding planning team at Howerton+Wooten Events! And, if you are interested in booking me as a speaker at your event or on your TV segment or on your podcast, you can secure more information about me as a speaker here.

Love and Soul Always, Kawania

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