Lately, My Life Has Been a Little Out of Control

Sometimes, I can be a major type A.  No, forget that. Sometimes, I can be a type AAA.  Oh my goodness! I must admit that I am legendary for keeping it all together.  But, lately my life (business, family, teaching) has gotten a little out of hand.  It’s so out of hand that this “Type A” has to admit that her Christmas tree is still up.  Okay, I said it.  Whew!  Before yesterday, I would not have been able to admit that but when I tearfully explained my little Christmas tree secret to my one of my best friends, Tamara (another self-proclaimed Type A), she recommended that I talk to my “Type F” friend.

What In the World is a “Type F” Friend?

Of course I was a little confused.  What on earth is a Type F friend?  She explained to me that a Type F (also known as an “Ef It” friend) is the friend who will view my concern, crisis and/or situation from another perspective.  Tamara explained that this kind of fresh thinking is what she needs when she is in the throes of her most “Type A” frenzy. It’s not a person who doesn’t care (that’s a Type B).  A Type F cares or at least “gets” what you care about, but can think about it differently and actively flip it.

Wedding Consultants Can Be Great “Type F” Friends

This, of course, made me think of a wedding consultant’s relationship with a couple.  The funny thing about this, most wedding consultants are “Type A,” because it’s all about the details. But, we know how to be your “Type F” on so many levels.

As Type F’s, We Can Be Your Fireman

With so many details, a bride is bound to face a fire or two. Your wedding consultant will know how to effectively put out a fire, and we know how to identify most fires before they actually occur.

As Type F’s, We Can Be Your Comic Relief

Couples have moments when the only thing that they need is a sounding board or a “shoulder to cry on.”  Wedding consultants help you to laugh at the moments that seem huge, but really aren’t, and “breathe through” the truly challenging moments.

As Type F’s, We Are Your “Inside Man”

Most wedding consultants have developed long, healthy relationships with some of the best vendors and venues in your area.  And, I can assure you that those relationships are what separate the grown-ups from the children when something really kooky occurs on your wedding day.  Don’t think anything kooky can occur?  Check out Soiree Laura’s examples on her Blog.  You will easily see that “Tulle Happens.”

Who is My “Type F” Friend?

Oh, if you are wondering about the name of my Type F, it’s my sister, Shina, of course.  And, I am happy to report that my “O Tannenbaum Un-Tree Trimming” party is taking place this weekend!

Love and Soul Always, Kawania