Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Invite Children to Your Wedding
As a wedding planner, I’ve heard every reason why couples don’t want children at their wedding. Here sre some of them.
- “It costs too much”
- “They’re disruptive”
- “They’re loud”
- “They cry”
I get it. I’m a mom, and I understand the concerns. But before you decide to host a child-free wedding, consider this: Where else will children see real, open expressions of love and commitment?
Weddings Are A Powerful, Joyful Example of Responsible, Happy Adult Love
Yes, children might witness affection at home or among family, but a wedding is a powerful, joyful example of responsible, happy adult love. In a world where media often exposes kids to negative behavior, violence, and affection without meaning, seeing genuine love and partnership modeled in a wedding setting is invaluable.
Weddings Allow Children to Experience the Joy of Community and Devotion
When children attend weddings, they don’t just see beautiful décor and fancy outfits — they experience the joy of community, celebration, and devotion. These moments help shape their understanding of love, family, and relationships in a positive way.
There Are Thoughtful Ways to Include Children In Weddings
If you’re worried about logistics, there are thoughtful ways to include children without disrupting the flow of your celebration. Hire a professional babysitter or childcare team, reserve a special play area with fun activities, or prepare “goodie bags” filled with quiet toys, coloring books, and snacks.
You Might Be Surprised By the Joy and Laughter Children Bring to Your Wedding Day
Whatever you decide, allow children to witness your love story unfold. You might be surprised by how much joy and laughter they bring to your day. After all, a wedding is about love, and sharing that love with every generation makes it even more meaningful.
Including children at your wedding isn’t just a sentimental choice; it’s a powerful statement about the kind of love and legacy you want to share.
Are You Ready for a Worry-Free Wedding Planning Experience?
If you are ready to embark on a wedding planning experience that creative, authentic and worry-free, contact your professional wedding planning team at Howerton+Wooten Events! We specialize in professional wedding planning for couples who value excellence, creativity, and detailed organization.
Love and Soul Always, Kawania
(Photo: Anne Lord Photography)