Fat Daddy always tells me that you attract more bees with honey than you do with vinegar.

This is good advice given to so many of us by our parents and grandparents.

Lately, I find myself watching talk shows and reality shows that showcase beautiful brides insulting and demeaning their friends, family members (and grooms) into submission.

I was horrified to watch an episode of Tyra recently where a bride asked her sister to lose 100 pounds, get a tummy tuck and purchase $1,000 worth of Indian hair for a hair weave. Her rationale: “She needs to lose it anyhow, why not do it before my wedding.”

Wow.

Memories of how you treat your family, friends and wedding guests will outlast the memory of your wedding gown, the cake AND that fabulous band.

So be nice while planning your wedding. Even when you are REALLY stressed out.
It will benefit you (and your special relationships) long after your wedding day.

Love & Soul Always, Kawania